Courteous


fyi, it's written there " Penny if free pls iron SHIRT" not shit ok!! =.=

this message was left by my mum on the fridge..forget about the grammar mistake will you? thats not the whole point of it..what u expect from a chinese educated aunty to write in english? anyway the point is...i like de way she "ordered" me to do work...this way sound more polite and I ironed all the clothes that day which I normally dont =p

so true..

To My Friends Who Are...........SINGLE
Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it. Love can make you happy but often it hurts, but love's only special when you give it to someone who is really worth it. So take your time and choose the best.


To My Friends Who Are............NOT SO SINGLE
Love isn't about becoming somebody else's 'perfect person.' It's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.


To My Friends Who Are............PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPE
Never say 'I love you' if you don't care. Never talk about feelings if theyaren't there. Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart. Never look in the eye when all you do is lie. The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is to let her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall and it works both ways...


To My Friends Who Are............HEARTBROKEN
Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to go. The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.


To My Friends Who Are............NAIVE
How to be in love: Fall but don't stumble, be consistent but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, and get hurt but never keep the pain.


To My Friends Who Are............POSSESSIVE
It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else but
it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.


To My Friends Who Are............AFRAID TO CONFESS
Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel.


To My Friends Who Are............STILL HOLDING ON
A sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall in love, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and that you have wasted years on someone who wasn't worth it. If he isn't worth it now he's not going to be worth it a year or 10 years from now Let go....



Got this beautiful mail from Syed@ah Boo^^ would like to share with all of u!!

Over You - Christ Daughtry



Now that it's all said and done,
I can't believe you were the one
To build me up and tear me down,
Like an old abandoned house.
What you said when you left
Just left me cold and out of breath.
I fell too far, was in way too deep.
Guess I let you get the best of me.

#Well, I never saw it coming.
I should've started running
A long, long time ago.
And I never thought I'd doubt you,
I'm better off without you
More than you, more than you know.
I'm slowly getting closure.
I guess it's really over.
I'm finally getting better.
And now I'm picking up the pieces.
I'm spending all of these years
Putting my heart back together.
'Cause the day I thought I'd never get through,
I got over you.

You took a hammer to these walls,
Dragged the memories down the hall,
Packed your bags and walked away.
There was nothing I could say.
And when you slammed the front door shut,
A lot of others opened up,
So did my eyes so I could see
That you never were the best for me. #


It seem like LOVE is not really in the air..a few of my friends got broke up and some of them doesn't really work things out with their crush. Current mood is like there's a dark cloud raining above your head...hang in there my friends, what ever it is..you will get over them soon =) its definitely HARD but its NOT impossible!!

"I'm slowly getting closure, I'm guess it's really over, I'm finally getting better."

How sad..

"what's it goin wrong with the 2 of us?" you asked, but you know none of us really know the answer...

It's sad that the 2 hearts who love each other never EVER gonna work out..it's a fact that we loved, its also a fact that we can never work out fine...the only thing left to do is.....move on!

Forever?

Ever wonder how your friendship faded? Its a sad but true fact that no matter how close u are with so and so at this very moment, when you are heading to the different path in life the friendship will left nothing but just the dullest "hi" and "bye". Like it or not, you have to accept it.

Ofcause, I'm not applying this statement to ALL but most of the relationship, either friendship or couple relationship. Just ponder a while, I'm sure you have this experience that you can hardly squeeze out a topic to talk with your old mates that used to be so close with you, and even if you do talk the topic is still just turning around at those times when you all were sharing the time together..not going any further from there because you can not find any common topic in between cause you are on the different path now! that feeling suxx..but somehow we gonna deal with it..

Same thing goes to the couple (I think). Even couple that meet often will end up breaking up whats more those who are experiencing long distance relationship? (I'm just speaking on general, not putting anyone into this shoes) sooner or later you will find that it's so hard to communicate because you 2 were living in a utterly different environment, you duno his/her new friends, you feel insecure when they are not there with you, you think that they might met someone else and things like that and you started to think alot and from there arguement started to take over the place of all the sweet talks. From what I saw with my own eyes so far, long distance relationship always ends with nothing. 2 cases that I've came across, but none of them work out fine! For me, what's de point of dating someone who's not physically there beside you when you need them? Okay, it depends alot on how u define the word "dating"..

Over the years, I think I learned that friendship doesn't have to be forever. As long as within the times that we share together is full with laughter and you really sincere in that friendship that you build between you and your friends, the memories itself worth much more den forever...As for couples, even if things doesnt really work out fine towards the end, you needless to mourn over the lost of the relationship for a very long time, the relationship is gone but memories stay.

Everyone and everythings changes at every single moment, do not expect forever nothing last forever but memories, so treat everyone and everything with all your heart and make them a good memory for yourself to reminisce in the future isnt it makes you feel better in a way?

p/s: Again, I'm typing this on general..NOT putting any one into any shoes!!

明明很爱你



nah..i know u muz be thinkin "NOOOO, song again?!!" but hey..this is my blog okay?! Recently just came across all the songs that will reminds me of him!!!

hahha..victor is so pity in this clip ;P its sweet thou..

"我平凡无奇 而你像灿烂星星 让我担心..."

123木头人



"多希望你在下个路口 就会牵起我的手" =)


heard of this song from a fren..n she keep sayin I shud sing to "him"
if only he can understand mandarin I will...(as if I really will =.=) anyway its a cute song..

Random post

Just some random interesting pictures from my phone~

fyi, this is a flower pot!! saw it in a hardware shop in ikano.. Muhahah I will die laughin if my dad were to put this pot at home..


Saw this cute lil' object in a jap restaurant..wonderin what's it
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TA~DA
it's a toothpick holder!
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so many things' runnin thru my mind..the feelin is so complex and undescribable maybe I'm just thinkin too much, it's after all just a silly thought?! I wish it is..
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Feelin bad for always troubling henry to fetch me to campus! even it's his break now Im stil troubling him!! argh~!!! no car = tempang!!!
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alrite, gonna get back to work...



After psychology class...


Psychology student spendin their break time in between class in the kiddy room...
and Yen Ling..I found u another cam whore club member in this clip! muahaha ;P



see the psychotic are they?!!

This is the city they build..I duno since when sunway college is located beside a graveyard..and also the dead body is bigger den de coffin!!! =.=
anyway..Im havin so much fun studyin with this bunch of psycho =)


Belated Surprise!

So the surprise I was sayin did work out PERFECTLY~

We planned a birthday surprise for Sim, althou its a lil' bit delayed but stil its a sincere one. So we pakat-ed with her sister and sneaked into her room without her realising it and standby with a cake lighten up with candle when she came in =) ofcz the expression on her face was as predicted...nyahaha whee~ the surprise was successfully been executed! Happy belated birthday mate..

After dat we took her out for dinner at tete a tete (which ever way u like to pronounce it) ordered food and had our girly talk, talk bout food, bout life, studies, guys, coursemates, old frens, future and everythin under the sun..cant wait for the next gatherin with u gals and that will be this comin sat!!woohoo~

shud be very tired when I got back and can sleep easily at nite but his message just came in and you can never imagine how excited I wil be everytime when his messages came in without expectation...I know I sound nuts and you must be thinkin that I'm crazeeee~~~~ but it's so true! argh~ I hate myself behaving in such a way!!


"If I know what love is, it is because of you." - Herman Hesse

GuiltFUL dinners

Mood carried forward from the last post =) stil in the happy yuppie mood..

Allrite, lets not go any further on the mood. I went for a dinner buffet in Neway with ma clovers gals, henry and celeste on friday nite! Been lookin forward to it since God knows when..it'd been a great nite with good foods and songs until the bil came in!! it cost us a bomb!!!thats it la..no more dinner buffet in karaoke..and oh ya, kampai blackcurrant taste like cough mixture!! I should have go for heineken..all n all its stil a good nite out or to be more precise: an expensive nite out hah=D

On sat evening, picked rachel up after my visit to the popular in ikano ALONE~!! watodo?? My kaki sudah cabut ke sunway..and next year most of them will be leavin to Aus, guess I must start to get use to shoppin alone (cheh..how pathetic hhaha) opps..went off topic so I was sayin I picked rachel up and we went to Navin's place for dinner. Navin's cookin us dinner..Carbonara cheese and mustard chicken yay!! okay..thou the pasta was a lil bit off but stil its tasty..just that it's really FATTENIN!!! Imagine this, u just stuff urself with buffet dinner with the eat-all-u-can spirit and today u stuffin urself with cheese!!!! argh~ my guilt is killin me..

Met up with a great pal who just back from overseas, his identity shall not be revealed..teehee=) anyway was so glad to meet up with u and I felt honoured..nyahaha!! Dude dun go any slimmer ler!! u makin me jealous and do take care urself always..see u soon, really soon i guess!

It's 2 nites out continuously and there's another surprise nite out comin up tomorrow!! whee~ we better make the surprise work!! I'm comin with the surprise mate..wait for me~~


"Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, but sometimes your smile can be the source of your joy." - Thich Nhat Hanh

Happy Yuppie!!

Blues bug me no more recently..yay!! =)

Things are goin back to the right track slowly, I'm feeling secure and satisfy with what I have now..my family, my frens, my studies, my outings, my food, my music, my timetable, my new coursemates, my new social circle, and ofcz my 'special someone' in mind ;)

I shall not let things go off track and lost control again..lookin forward for a wonderful 2007!! Dudes and dutettes, hang in there if u are facing any hardship in life now. There's always a better tomorrow so long u dun give up! cheers..


VisualDNA



saw this stuff from wai kit's blog..made one myself.

its like personality test, but somehow i dun find it accurate! haha..