Ever wonder how your friendship faded? Its a sad but true fact that no matter how close u are with so and so at this very moment, when you are heading to the different path in life the friendship will left nothing but just the dullest "hi" and "bye". Like it or not, you have to accept it.
Ofcause, I'm not applying this statement to ALL but most of the relationship, either friendship or couple relationship. Just ponder a while, I'm sure you have this experience that you can hardly squeeze out a topic to talk with your old mates that used to be so close with you, and even if you do talk the topic is still just turning around at those times when you all were sharing the time together..not going any further from there because you can not find any common topic in between cause you are on the different path now! that feeling suxx..but somehow we gonna deal with it..
Same thing goes to the couple (I think). Even couple that meet often will end up breaking up whats more those who are experiencing long distance relationship? (I'm just speaking on general, not putting anyone into this shoes) sooner or later you will find that it's so hard to communicate because you 2 were living in a utterly different environment, you duno his/her new friends, you feel insecure when they are not there with you, you think that they might met someone else and things like that and you started to think alot and from there arguement started to take over the place of all the sweet talks. From what I saw with my own eyes so far, long distance relationship always ends with nothing. 2 cases that I've came across, but none of them work out fine! For me, what's de point of dating someone who's not physically there beside you when you need them? Okay, it depends alot on how u define the word "dating"..
Over the years, I think I learned that friendship doesn't have to be forever. As long as within the times that we share together is full with laughter and you really sincere in that friendship that you build between you and your friends, the memories itself worth much more den forever...As for couples, even if things doesnt really work out fine towards the end, you needless to mourn over the lost of the relationship for a very long time, the relationship is gone but memories stay.
Everyone and everythings changes at every single moment, do not expect forever nothing last forever but memories, so treat everyone and everything with all your heart and make them a good memory for yourself to reminisce in the future isnt it makes you feel better in a way?
p/s: Again, I'm typing this on general..NOT putting any one into any shoes!!
Ofcause, I'm not applying this statement to ALL but most of the relationship, either friendship or couple relationship. Just ponder a while, I'm sure you have this experience that you can hardly squeeze out a topic to talk with your old mates that used to be so close with you, and even if you do talk the topic is still just turning around at those times when you all were sharing the time together..not going any further from there because you can not find any common topic in between cause you are on the different path now! that feeling suxx..but somehow we gonna deal with it..
Same thing goes to the couple (I think). Even couple that meet often will end up breaking up whats more those who are experiencing long distance relationship? (I'm just speaking on general, not putting anyone into this shoes) sooner or later you will find that it's so hard to communicate because you 2 were living in a utterly different environment, you duno his/her new friends, you feel insecure when they are not there with you, you think that they might met someone else and things like that and you started to think alot and from there arguement started to take over the place of all the sweet talks. From what I saw with my own eyes so far, long distance relationship always ends with nothing. 2 cases that I've came across, but none of them work out fine! For me, what's de point of dating someone who's not physically there beside you when you need them? Okay, it depends alot on how u define the word "dating"..
Over the years, I think I learned that friendship doesn't have to be forever. As long as within the times that we share together is full with laughter and you really sincere in that friendship that you build between you and your friends, the memories itself worth much more den forever...As for couples, even if things doesnt really work out fine towards the end, you needless to mourn over the lost of the relationship for a very long time, the relationship is gone but memories stay.
Everyone and everythings changes at every single moment, do not expect forever nothing last forever but memories, so treat everyone and everything with all your heart and make them a good memory for yourself to reminisce in the future isnt it makes you feel better in a way?
p/s: Again, I'm typing this on general..NOT putting any one into any shoes!!
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