its easy to point ur fingers at others and snap at them when they are the extra one person in a relationship. but when the situation happen on ourselves, we often find many excuse to escape away from the guilt. when people fall in love with some one who are already in a relationship, they are unforgivable; but when we, ourselves who did things like this, its because the feeling is uncontrollable.......*sigh* self-serving bias! and never shall we ignore the fact that, it takes both hands to clap! the one who committed to the third party should be blamed altogether.
Actually, I do not like the idea of 'easy come easy go' kinda relationship. but then, like I said, feelings fade away and when we realized we do not love him/her anymore, we shouldn't lead them on. Tell them straight instead of letting the relationship going no where. I believe when you are in love, at the very moment you really love them; but when the feeling is already gone you cant fake! instead of hooking up with another one while u are still in the relationship with the current one and end up hurting all parties, might as well just be frank to the current partner, put an end to it and start a new. It is ok if you will fall for someone new, but do not start a new relationship when you are still engage in another relationship! because it is a frigging game for two!
I was watching some TV program just now and suddenly this issue strikes me, so wanted to share some thought here. but anyhow..an important announcement~ EXAM'S OVER! good or bad, it's over!! although I am quite sure that when I get the result, my life is going to shorten by decades....we went to PD right after our last paper and just came back on Tues! I totally enjoy the company and the fun! we took pictures, run around the beach like escapee from asylum, watch the sun set, have our very own 'ruler' massage, play poker, bluff,
sun set at PD
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