Embrace Imperfection

I've received and sent a mail related to this...
Let's talk about the mail that I've received, it came in a story and here's the moral of the story
what I've learned over the years is that learning to accept each other's fault and choose to celebrate each other's differences, is the one of the most important keys to create a healthy growing and lasting marriage or any relationship.
Each and everyone in the world have got different character, different principles and different point of view towards life, what you think to be important in your life may not be the same way in others as everyone has their own priority in life. When there's these differences in between 2 people occur what do we do? Fight and the loser follow the winner?! When it come to this point, there's time for both to tolerate. Like the mail said, accept each other's fault and celebrate each other;s differences. The very important key to a relationship is tolerance; as long as it doesn't go against your principles why can't you tolerate with each other? The most important thing is, if you can't tolerate with certain attitude be sure that you voice out and not keep it inside and complaint behind! "Few friendships would survive if each one knew what his friend says of him behind his back. - Blaise Pascal"

The mail I sent just 2 days ago, to a close friend of mine telling her how much I appreciate the friendship between us and I get a sweet reply in return =) We are close and we never rarely quarrel. The key is also tolerance! We know perfectly that we are different and we often see it through and tolerate with each other's differences and imperfection. We both are way too different between each other and yet is also similar to each other in so many ways =)

So to the many friends out there, there's no such thing as best friend when you never wana put in an effort to accept and embrace other's weak point. You can't find a total eclipse of yourself in the world so learn to TOLERATE like others do.

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